My Life Story

F r i e n d s are people you
know and like. They can be either sex and of any age. I do not think
that anyone can leave without friends. all of us need friends for
various reasons.

We need friends to play and enjoy life with.
Friends are also a source of comfort when we are sad. Friends will
cushion us during this moment of sadness. Friends will be there to
remove most of the pain.

Furthermore, friends are there to help
us when we are in trouble. When we are without a job, they will try to
get us one. When we are sick, they will come to visit and comfort us.
When we have no money, they will help us with some. When others talk
bad about us, they will defend us. Were our houses burn down they would
be the first on the scene to offer solace and help. With friends to
help us when we are in trouble, things are not so bad. As the saying
goes, "Trouble shared is trouble  halved."

Friends
are there not only to share our sorrows. They are there to share our
joys, too. When we are successful, they will be the first to
congratulate us. When we tie the knot with someone we love, our friends
will rejoice with us. When our careers or businesses take off, they
will be there to show their pleasure. With friends to share in our
moments of joy, our happiness is multiplied. As the saying goes, "Joy shared is joy doubled".

However,
we should be aware of fair-weather friends. Fair weather friends are
with us only when times are good. They desert us when we are
down-and-out. Another type of friends we should be aware of are false
friends. After knowing everything about you, they may betray you. Keep
a distance from these two types of friends.

Choose your friends
with great care. After having found out who your true friends are, bind
them to yourself "with hoops of steel,"

So, have you find your " F R I E N D"?

I think nothing is more important then health. Without health,
nothing else is worth having. For example a man with a few million
ringgit who suffer from incurable cancer. Even with his vast wealth, he
is doomed with a painful and early death. So, what is the use of money
if one does not have health?

Hehe, many of my reader actually thought I’m a journalist! Never did
that ever came to my mind. Well, the interesting part is, they even ask
me whether I’m going to published books!
Hmm, what I blog here was
just part of my opinions, something to share with everyone about my
life. But one thing I’m really grateful with. I know alot’s of friend’s
here. I appreciate a lot. I would like to give them my sincere "T H A N K   Y O U"
deep down at my heart. All of you are always welcome to post your
comment here. And I would be definitely reply you as soon as possible.

And yeah, if what I write here did make you uncomfortable, I would like to say S O R R Y.
I mean no harm. Yet, I’m ready to be your friend! Cheer up there and
enjoy life. I remember a friend told me, whether we are happy or not,
we still have to go on our life. Why don’t we leave more happier
instead of being sad and unhappy? I’m learning to do that, so can you,
my dear friend out there!

Together we learn! Life means no worry…

Have you ever wondered: What is our purpose in life; why are we here on
Earth; what will my destiny or fate be?
 
To
discover my destiny I must become aware of my true self: Whom I’m and
what I want in life. Getting in touch with my true self is crucial,
otherwise I can wander aimlessly throughout life, having no direction
and few accomplishments.

I can tell right away if I’m fulfilling
my destiny by asking myself: "Is this the life I want to live?" When
I’m graduated from high school, is the life I’m currently living, what
I envisioned for myself? Even before I answer, there are clues as to
whether or not I’m fulfilling my destiny. If I’m involved in any kind
of substance abuse, suffer from drastic mood swings, are continually
depressed, or frequently tired for no reason, then the chances are very
high that I’m not living the life meant for myself. More than likely,
I’m living a life that pleases others, but not myself. I’m in a "rut"
and need help.

Some people may be scared to find their true
self for fear that they are destined to be poor or homeless or unhappy.
Nothing could be further from the truth. The only way I can be truly
happy and successful is to be my true self. Taking what I perceive to
be a "safe route", such as staying in a dead-end job because of the
salary and benefits, does not guarantee I’m happy, successful life. On
the contrary, it makes my present life even more unbearable. There’s a
good reason why the divorce rate, the level of employee absenteeism,
and the overall rate of drug and alcohol abuse is so high: People are
unhappy with their lives! I do not need a Ph.D. in psychology to figure
out that well-balanced, happy people do not abuse themselves and other
people.

My destiny is under my own control. I can create any
kind of life I want, at any time and under any circumstances. The life
I create, however, will not be satisfying unless it is based upon what
my inner self needs and wants, in other words, my passions, the core of
my inner being. It is crucial that what I want in life must be an
actual reflection of whom I really are, not just based upon what my
parents, friends, or anyone else wants.

How about you? Ever think about your own D E S T I N Y?

I think that it’s better to be realistic than overly
optimistic. I ‘m happier to cut my losses than try for something I just can’t
have. It’s better to think small and be happy when things go well, rather than
think big and be disappointed when they don’t.

I like the idea of reinventing myself but the thought of it
scare me stupid.

Wow, I’m happy to make a decision all by myself, with no one
holding my hand or anything! I’ve got enough confidence to take a chance but
I’m not too proud to shrug it off if it turns out wrong. If it succeed, its
make me happy, that’s great!

But if it all falls flat come two minutes past midnight,
I’ll feel good that at least I tried!

Do you find it difficult to share your innermost thoughts
with anyone even your best mate? If someone came up and said they
fancied you, would you immediately think that there were joking? Do you
try to turn into your instincts when you’re making your mind up, and
then worry that you’ve not used enough common sense?
Do you think that love isn’t meant to be easy?
Do you believe that other people are luckier in love then you? Are you too shy to let someone know when you like them?
Do you think you’re destined to be unlucky in love unless you make some big change?

The grass is always greener on the other side…so as the older proverb goes – and as far as I’m concerned, it’s true!

I
think that if I could just change something about myself, then
everything would be wonderful. Luckily, when I’m spouting my
resolutions, I know these sort of expectations are pretty hard to live
up to.

Don’t shy away from the idea of making changes; just
don’t be too hard on myself if I fail. Cause I’ve got the whole of the
rest of the year to get things right!

More About Me

Well,
to the outside world it might seem so, but just because you don’t shout
about it from the rooftops or believe in snogging someone’s face off in
public, it doesn’t mean that you aren’t into hearts and flowers and all
things romantic. In fact, being the cautious kind of girl you are, you
often end up with the best kind of relationships, precisely because you
take your time and wait till you’re sure of someone before you give
them heart. But don’t be too cautious for too long, or you could risk
letting someone special slip right through your hands!

As
for me I believe it, every heart palpitating, tummy flipping,
daydreaming moment of it. Love is a huge adventure to me and I’m more
then ready to dive in and see what happens and with a great big,
optimistic grin on my face! I’m not in the least bit shy about showing
my emotions, but remember that not everyone’s like us, and sometimes
such enthusiasm can frighten shyer people away…

Cancer
is never a happy topic but after having a family member be diagnosed
with a disease it is important for people with illnesses and their
friends and family to know that they are not alone in their suffering.
And more importantly that they can
get through it.

Life is just a D E S T I N Y