In love with Net Friend?
I know this is a long shot, but the relationship just might work
out. I know of some online meetings that have blossomed into happy,
committed relationships. And in matters of the heart, passions run deep
and opinions are often inflexible.
I believe, and it’s my humble opinion, that you have been captured
by the allure and the idea of hearing things that your heart wants to
hear. Pictures, long talks on the phone, email …. They all feed the
fantasy.
Far too often, and in many different scenarios, the anticipation is more rewarding than the event.
You can develop very strong feelings for somebody without meeting
them, particularly if you have spoken on the phone, and had
communication via webcam. And yes you can believe yourself in love.
But it’s not until you meet them that those feelings of love will be confirmed or denied.
You are in love, a b s o l u t e l y.
With a man? No.
With text, possibly an image, possibly a voice? Yes.
If you need to clear this up even more - list (and I mean write it down on paper) - just what it is you love about this "man".
Now, put that all aside, and write out your dream life together with a perfect "man."
Lay the two lists side by side, you’ll see clearly the two worlds are separate.
You are not in love with a "man", but in love with the idea of the "real" 3D man being the equal to the ideas you’ve cooked up.
And I’ll guarantee you, when the two worlds meet up, they are NOT going to be the same; not even close.
The net is a nice way to make contact, say h e l l o, but that’s pretty much it until you bring it into 24/7, right in front of your face!!!
